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Episode 50- Embracing Love In and For Your Life

Princeton Clark Season 3 Episode 50

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When you say you “love your life,” is that a real experience or a hopeful headline? We sit with a direct question that cuts through gratitude talk and gets to the truth: are you actually creating a life you love, one where you feel fulfilled, free, and fully expressed, or are you delaying the very life you say you want?

We explore self love as a state of being, not a temporary feeling, and why that matters for personal growth, mindset, and manifestation. If you are a powerful divine creator, then your results are not random, even your inaction carries power. We talk about ownership without shame, self-awareness without excuses, and how to look at your patterns in a way that puts choice back in your hands.

From there, we get practical about decision making. Waiting for the right time can become a lifestyle, and non decision quietly builds a future you did not choose. We reframe failure as stopping, not falling, and we unpack how “falling” can actually be progress because it creates information, wisdom, and momentum. You leave with a simple challenge: pick one step you can take today, one conversation, one tool, or one habit, and let 1% better compound.

If you want help getting aligned, we point you to evolvedmastery.com for a free assessment and additional resources, plus ways to connect through events and coaching. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs the nudge, and leave a rating and review so more people can find the show. What’s the one decision you will make today?

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Hello and welcome to this episode of Evolve Mastery. I'm your host, Princeton Clark, and as promised, we got episodes coming every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday now. But I want to thank all of you who are my new listeners and all of you who continue to show up. We're getting this thing revving up again. And so I have one big ask as you listen to these podcasts or go back and listen to old ones, please, please, please share the podcast, share with people so that they may be inspired and maybe given an opportunity to expand and evolve and master their lives. This episode today is going to be a shorter episode. As I stated a few episodes ago, we're going to have more frequent episodes coming. So make sure you subscribe. But we're going to have more frequent episodes coming every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Some will be long, some will be short. Now I'm coming into this episode today, just really moving at a pace that I don't really know how long this is going to be. It might be five minutes, it might be 10 minutes, it might be an hour, but I'm I'm working towards this one as it's flowing out of me. You're getting very intuitive flow in this episode. And the last episode was very powerful and you know, big energy. And you know, sometimes it comes out like that. And I'm very authentically me. I'm not here to please or appease people. I share because I understand that the different ways that I am gifted to share things, when I am gifted to share it, shows up in different ways because someone, even if it's only one person, needed it to come that way. And so that episode might not have been for a lot of you, and this episode might not be, but it's gonna land for someone. So let's go ahead and dive in. Today I want to ask a question. And it might sound a little off-putting, you know, maybe even a little too direct when I ask it, but I really want you to ask yourself this question, and I really want you to sit with it. And I'm gonna explain as you sit and allow me in your space today. But the question is this When will you truly start loving yourself and your life? When will you truly start loving yourself and your life? Now you may think to yourself, I do love my life. I'm very grateful. Now let me ask you this question. Are you truly creating a life that you love? Meaning, do you feel fulfilled right now? Do you feel free in your life? When you feel led to create something in your life, do you just show up and do it or do you put it off? This is something I really want you to think about. See, because love is a state of being. And often it's confused with a feeling. See, a state of being will always override a feeling. When I say I love my life, what I am saying is I wholeheartedly give myself to and surrender to the moments and the experiences that I am being given an opportunity to express myself through and to in this experience I call my life. Nothing holding back, nothing pushed down, but fully expressing all that I am unapologetically, because I only get this one life. Now I want to ask you this question. Based on that breakdown of what it means to love your life, to be fully expressed in your life, to be fully engaged in your life, can you say, via a state of being that you are in love with your life? And I want you to consider that. I want you to sit with that today. See, because I didn't always love my life. And those of you who have followed my podcast, you understand why I say that. You understand where I came from. And so I won't regurgitate that today. Go back and listen to the other episodes to hear more about my journey and what I've experienced and what brought me to this place because I really want to stay focused on this topic today. And I don't want to make it so much about me because this is about you. I'm already at a point where I am vulnerable to my life. I am fully engaging in my life. I am working to become and to evolve to be the best version of me. But my goal through Evolve Mastery and this podcast is to meet connective people who are ready to fully be the embodiment of what it means to live an evolved, fulfilled, and free life where they can fully express all of themselves without feeling like they have to hold back, shut down, close off, push away, you know what's truly meant for them. I want you guys to be completely free. I want you guys to operate in the highest capacity possible. And guess what? It might not always feel like it, but as I stated in the last podcast and in previous ones, no matter where you find yourself, you are always powerful. If you think negative, you're flowing powerfully in the negative. If you think positive, you're flowing powerfully in the positive. But no matter where you find yourself, you are always powerful. As a divine creator, you are always powerful. And I really need you to meditate on that. If you think about nothing else for the rest of the day, think about that question Am I truly showing up in my life? Is my state of being showing the fruit of someone who truly honors their life, is grateful for their life, and is showing up fully in their life, free, expressing themselves, manifesting, creating everything that they desire to create in the moments of their life? And then looking at it from multiple perspectives and really sitting with it and asking yourself, Am I truly showing up aware of my power in my life? See, because when you understand how much power you have, then you understand that even inaction is powerful. Your failure or lack of manifestation is being powerfully done. It's not happening by accident. Everything in your life is manifesting because of how you choose to show up or fail to show up, based around how you choose to think, see, respond, and operate in your life. Everything is manifesting because of that. And once you can take ownership of that, you become more intentional with your time, you become more intentional with your focus, you become more intentional with your gifts, you become more intentional with your vision, you become more intentional with your relationships, you become more intentional individually, mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally. This is what I desire for you. And as a guide, as a mentor, my responsibility and my role in anything that I do that allows me into people's lives, like yourself, is to lead you back to you, back to this awareness, back to this understanding of what you have that's available to you, which is your power to create the life you say you desire, or the power to create any life, regardless of whether you are aware or unaware. This is why doing the deeper work and getting to know yourself as deeply as possible is so important because you'll never fully understand what you're capable of if you're not willing to fully surrender to the possibility of that capacity, if you're not willing to stretch yourself, if you're not willing to move yourself, if you're not willing to give yourself opportunities to experience something new, to go deeper into something new, to expand in current opportunities or beyond. Give yourself freedom to be the fullest essence of what you have, the potential power, and purpose to be in your life. You'll never fully understand the depth of yourself. But understand this something I've been saying a lot lately is until you truly understand the depth in yourself, it's going to make it really hard to understand depth in people because you can only truly understand people as deeply as you've learned to understand yourself. You can only love other people as deeply as you love yourself. Conditionally, you can love people regardless, but conditional love as a feeling fades, love as a state of being expands. And so I want you guys to think about that today. How are you showing up in your life? What are you seeking? What are you in a state to build? What are you leading? What are you manifesting? Really get clear in that. And I want you guys to sit with that and I want you guys to meditate on that. And this can be something you come back to each day and just listen to it and sit with yourself and ask yourself each day Am I truly showing up to love myself and my life today? Am I truly showing up to be vulnerable, to freely express, to build, to create, and to manifest the life that I truly desire? And if not, ask yourself, what is one thing that I can do today to start taking a step in that direction? What is one conversation I can have? What is one tool I can start to use? What is one habit I can start to develop? Because if you can get 1% better every single day, then in a hundred days, you're gonna be leagues ahead of where you are now. We are experiential creatures. We grow through experience. And see what happens with most people when they are not showing up in their power consistently and with intention is they create stories, they paralyze themselves, they go into spirals, they spin out, and then they become comfortable in discomfort. And as a result, they sit back and wait. They wait for the right time, they wait for the right moment, they wait for the right person, they wait for the right situations, and all of these things keep them where it keeps them. And no decisions ever truly get made. Everything starts manifesting as a result of non-decision. But if you want to grow, if you want to expand, if you want to evolve in any area of your life, get good at making decisions. Now you may say, well, Princeton, well, what if I make a decision and I fail? Well, first off, the way I teach failure, I don't believe in failure because for me, failure is what happens when you stop and I don't plan on stopping. I do believe in falling down, however. I will fall down a thousand times and I will get up each time. But I love the idea of falling through making decisions. Because if I fall, when I stand back up, I'm still a step ahead of where I would have been had I never taken that step. And now I have new information. I can look back. Okay, why did I fall? What could I have done differently? What can I do differently next time? Okay, what did that teach me? Now I have information, and by simply pausing for a moment and observing, taking ownership and being responsible for where I just fell after taking that step, after making the decision, I now can gain wisdom and then I can move with new decision. And as I move making new decisions, I'm now wiser. So even falling isn't failure because you kept moving. But failure is what happens when you choose not to make a decision or you choose to make a decision that keeps you where you are because it's still stopping, it's still not progress. You know, and so I want you guys to consider that today. Are you falling or are you living in a state of failure? Are you making decisions that are going to challenge you to grow? And as a result, it creates opportunities for you to gain wisdom, get new information so that you can apply that information and step into the next space or the next opportunity or experience in your life? Or are you just staying where you are, hoping things will change, complaining about the things not changing because you aren't powerfully showing up, loving yourself in a state of expansion to create the life that you say you want? These are questions that I had to sit with, questions that I had to ask myself frequently. And so as I was thinking about it on my way, I was on the road, and I said, you know what? I hadn't recorded the podcast today, but again, I'm gonna stay consistent. It's gonna go up a little bit later on this Monday than I desire it to be. But I said every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, so I'm committed to it and I'm taking the steps to do it. It's not about perfection, it's about progress. It's about doing what you say you're gonna do when you said that you were gonna do it. But now I want you guys to go into your day. I don't want to stress this because growth really isn't complicated. Growth is simple. And so I'm gonna start sharing conversations like this with you guys because I want you to start using more self-awareness, being more of the observer in your life, self-assessing, looking at the way that you're making decisions and really beginning to tap into the truth inherently that you are a powerful divine creator. You can't always change or control what happens to you in your life, or in some cases, in most cases, what happens for you, but you can always control how you choose to respond to it. You always control how you use your power to navigate it or not navigate it. But no matter what you do, you are always powerful. Now, take this into your life. And if you're listening to this podcast for the first time, go check out my website, evolvedmastery.com. The link is in the bio for all my links, and it'll take you to different sections. But click that in the bio. There's an assessment. Maybe you're in a space in your life where you've been seeking. Maybe you're in a space where you're ready to build. You're seeking, you found a door, you're ready to go through it. Now you're building. Maybe you're in a space of you've built after being seeking, after seeking for a while, you've built something and now you're ready to lead and help other people or ready to lead in your industry or become more innovative or create something new as you do that. Go and take the free assessment on my website. And also, there's a video for those of you who may feel like, okay, I want to step into my power, but I've been feeling like I'm out of alignment. I've been feeling like I'm stuck and I don't really know what to do. And I'm trying to process through it, and a lot of things feel heavy. I want you to go to my website and I want you to watch the video. Click the link, it's the one at the top. Click that, but definitely do the assessment first. That's what I ask you to do and read the instructions before you go through the assessment because there's a specific way that you should be taking that assessment or that quiz and go through it. And while you're at it, check out all my other links that I have up. I have some new events coming, I have some new opportunities for you guys to get connected. We have Arizona Growth Con coming. We have the retreat that's coming up. We also have some other opportunities for you guys to get connected. Also, I'm doing a special right now. I only do it for six people every quarter. But it's a 12-week intensive one-on-one coaching with me. And you can go and you can get all the information about it. Also links for my books. But I want to get connected with you guys. I want to hear from you. So if nothing else, reach out to me on Instagram, send me a message, make sure you follow me, subscribe to this podcast, leave a rating, write a review, and share. Help me to impact more people. Maybe there's people in your life that need to ask themselves the questions that I just asked you. Maybe there's people in your life that you'd like to share this process with. Maybe there's other episodes that you listen to and you want to share those things with people. I challenge you, go check it out. But listen, guys, I love you as always. I appreciate you. You are a powerful divine creator creating this beautifully amazing life. You only get one. We're here for a moment, and we don't know when the moment will end. We don't know when the moment will end. So seize the day, seize the breath, own your power. Love yourself enough to live because you deserve it. But thank you for tuning in. Thank you for the support. And if you'd like to get connected again, follow the link in the show notes. And I look forward to talking to you guys again soon. Peace.